Teen Boys Taking Cancer Drugs in ‘Heightmaxxing’ Trend
What? “Looksmaxxing” takes yet another outrageous turn on social media, encouraging teen boys to take cancer drugs (yes, really) in order to increase their height, aka “heightmaxxing.” The drug is called “erda,” short for erdafitinib (brand name Balversa). Teens purchase it online from overseas vendors. And they’re apparently willing to undergo debilitating symptoms—including diarrhea, severe joint pain, nausea, nosebleeds and even nails separating from their nail beds—for the chance to grow just a little bit taller.
So What? Doctors warn that erda’s side effects can be much, much worse, though. Besides the fact that teens can continue having growth spurts even into their late teens—thus rendering the need for erda completely moot—the drug is normally used as a last resort to keep cancer patients alive when all other treatments fail.
Now What? The desire to be taller, according to several teens interviewed by Rolling Stone, is largely fueled by social media and the dating scene. These boys have been fed a lie that the female population will only be interested in them if they’re of a certain height. That right there is the first issue parents should address. But parents should also address the dangers of taking these prescription drugs. People who take erda for medical reasons endure the symptoms because it’s a choice between life and death—not tall or small.
Unchecked Strife as a Teen Can Cause Problems as an Adult
What? A study published in Health Psychology suggests that when teens are constantly fighting with their family, it can cause them to age prematurely and have difficult relationships in adulthood.
So What? Researchers assessed the aggression levels of study participants when they were just 13 years old. According to BBC Science Focus, the kids with higher ratings were found to have “more conflict with their fathers (though not their mothers) and went on to have relationship difficulties in later life.” By their 20s, many showed higher levels of hostile behavior towards friends, as well. And by their 30s, it led to a higher body mass index, too.
Now What? I can see why having strained relationships with your friends and family could lead to premature aging. Fighting with the ones you love is stressful! It raises your blood pressure, and studies also indicate that frequent or unresolved conflict can cause spikes in cholesterol and inflammatory markers, too, increasing your risk of cardiovascular disease. So if you and your teens are struggling to get along, consider various forms of resolution. Maybe it’s something you can talk about and resolve peacefully. Maybe it’s something you should seek counseling to work through. Whatever the case, don’t just attribute it to “moody teenagers.” Your kids need you to help them with these problems now.
Most Parents Hate Talking About Money
What? According to a survey by Acorns, a financial wellness company, 57% of parents would rather talk with their teens about drugs, alcohol or even sex rather than money.
So What? USA Today reports that some parents avoid the topic because of their own financial situation or money habits. But the survey revealed that if kids don’t learn about finances from their parents or teachers, they may try to learn through YouTube, social media or even video games.
Now What? It can be really uncomfortable to talk about money, even if your family is doing well: No parent wants their kid to become spoiled or entitled, after all. But it can be especially difficult if your own financial situation isn’t the best. You might feel embarrassed or ashamed. However, your kids need you to talk to them about this. Discussing money can help them to avoid making financial mistakes of their own. It can make them feel more comfortable saying “no” when a friend asks them to download a new game or purchase a snack. And it can empower them to save up their money for the things in life that are really important to them.
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